The Conservative Lesbian

Not every Gay person is a flaming liberal!

About the Conservative Lesbian

I am a fifty year old lesbian in a 15+ year committed relationship living in the Virginia suburbs of Washington, D.C. who [gasp!] has a generally conservative worldview and usually votes Republican. I grew up in a suburb of Portland, Oregon and I’ve worked for 23 years as a software developer in the D.C. metro area after leaving the U.S. Navy in 1985.

I came out to my parents in 1990 after dating a number of women, at which point they all but disowned me. I would not see them again for another seventeen years until last November, when we had a reunion.  

I became a Christian at a young age and spent years reconciling my faith with being Gay. I finally came to the conclusion that God made me the way I am and that He loves me unconditionally.  We don’t currently attend church, but only because we can’t seem to find one that’s a good fit.

I met my spouse in 1992 and we’ve just celebrated our fifteen year anniversary of our commitment ceremony.  We live in a big house in the ‘burbs that we share with our six cats, two dogs, a cockatiel, and five fishtanks. We are also low-grade biker trash with three Harley-Davidsons between the two of us: An Electraglide, a Softail Deluxe, and a 1992 Electraglide Sport as a project bike. 

I am a committed gun owner with a Virginia Concealed Handgun Permit, and I fully believe in the 2nd Amendment as an individual right.  Quite frankly, I thought the recent Heller decision did not nearly go far enough.  I was really hoping for the repeal of the 1939 National Firearms Act, the 1968 Gun Control Act, and the Firearms Owner Protection (ha!) Act.

My hobbies include skewering weak-minded liberals on their absurd views based on faulty analysis and defective logic, saltwater fish, cooking, eating sushi, travel, and trains, and I started this blog because I think I have a unique perspective on the world worth sharing.

8 Comments »

  1. I was once again doing a search on ‘conservative lesbian’… just in case I might stumble onto something new.
    We seem to be a pretty small subset of the lesbian community. It was nice to find your website. I’m a 51 year old Christian lesbian from Washington state. I don’t have one single lesbian friend in this area with similar views. Nice gals…but all pretty liberal. Thanks for being visible.

    Comment by Connie | October 1, 2008 | Reply

  2. Hey! I thought my partner and I were alone,too. We are both former Marines, own Harleys, love our firearms, have a dog and three cats and live in NoVA as well. We have been together for 16 years and are in our early 40’s. We are also pretty much shunned by the GLBT community for our very conservative views. It’s nice to know there are other conservative lesbians out there.

    Comment by Melissa | October 3, 2008 | Reply

  3. Well dang, I don’t have a Harley. But I do have all seasons of Xena on dvd. So… I’m thinking that should make me an honorory biker chick.

    Comment by Connie | October 6, 2008 | Reply

  4. Hi. I read one of your comments on wtopnews.com where you provided a link to your blog. I just wanted to say that I’ll look forward to reading more of your comments there, and to wish you well with your own site. Good luck!

    Comment by dreedle | October 17, 2008 | Reply

  5. Hello, wow…just wow…I just spent nearly an hour reading your posts and i’m so glad that i’m not alone. I’m 24 years old, college student at NYU, and a proud conservative, but i’ve been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years. ( we’ve been friends for a year before we became exclusive) And i have been looking around the net to see if i was truely alone. I’m actually pretty shocked that america would vote in such a radical liberal such as Obama. I was born and raised in Israel, in a pretty conservative family and moved to the states for an american education, and decided to stay. I feel that who i love should have no barings on my political and world views. I’m so happy i’m not alone. I shall be a faithful reader of your blog for now on!

    Comment by Shireena | January 21, 2009 | Reply

  6. Shireena, you are soooo not alone. We are out there, for sure!

    Keep reading – I’ve got some real gems up my sleeve!

    CL

    Comment by conservativelesbian | January 21, 2009 | Reply

  7. Saw your comment on a WTOP article… I’m gonna bookmark and tell my friends.

    ~ Rick

    CL replies:

    Thanks, Rick!

    CL

    Comment by Rick | May 24, 2009 | Reply

  8. Holy Cow!
    After discovering your site, I thought I was looking in a proverbial mirror! The only difference noticable was instead of me being a Hog afficionado, I have been an avid fly fisherman and fly tyer since 1970 when I was ten.
    I look forward to more incite on the world, through your conservative lesbian eyes! You have inspired me to begin devoping a future website for “single conservative lesbians.” Imagine that!
    Keep up the good work! ~Best Regards~

    CL replies:

    Hey, thanks for the kind words! We (conservative lesbians) are out here – see? You are not alone!

    Comment by Carey E. Boyce | December 21, 2009 | Reply


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